31 SHOCKING TRAITS OF SELF-CENTERED PEOPLE
[SCPS]
[SCPS]
Do you possess these traits?
Self-centered egoistic people are
all around us and they are causing so much untold pain and suffering in families,
relationships, churches, organizations and businesses. It is time to identity and separate from them before things get worse than it already is. Here are the 31 shocking
traits of these set of crazy people.
1. Self-centered
people are not concerned about showing care to others but the earnestly desire
to be cared for more than anyone else.
2. They don’t want to give listening ears to others but they want to be listened to and when you don’t listen to them, they are offended.
3. SCPs claim they are not good with calling or
checking up on other people but they want other people to always call and check
up on them.
4. They say they
don’t know how to show love to other people but they want to be given all the love
in this world.
5. They claim
they are not good with giving gifts to others but they are the first to demand
to be showered with gifts from others.
6. SCPs
feel less concerned about other people’s feelings, but they want every other person
to know how they feel.
7. Other people’s
opinions don’t count to them but you are in serious trouble if you don’t listen
or adhere to their own opinion.
8. They dominate
every conversation, making everyone feel they are smarter.
9. They get
angry at other people’s slight mistakes but don’t want others to make any
comment on theirs.
10. They can
push you to go out of your way to please them even at your own inconvenience but
they come up with reasonable excuses just to avoid pleasing someone else.
11. Their friendship
is based on selfish interest; they only relate with you based on what they can
get from you.
12. They will
never support any project or assignment but are quick to criticize the project
or assignment.
13. In terms of
ceremonies or special occasions organized by others, you hardly see them
supporting in any way, but you become their enemy when you fail to support them
during theirs.
14. SCPs are
too quick to judge others but never want to be raised an eye brow on.
15. They are
quick to spot mistakes, errors and weaknesses in others but when you mistakenly
spot theirs, they quickly debunk it.
16. They are
good with withholding their resources, making you feel as if they don’t have
but are quick to help you squander and exhaust your own resources.
17. They are good with manipulating others for
their own selfish reasons and ambition; it’s all about what they stand to gain.
18. They are so
deceptive in their character that it takes someone who is sensitive to spot out
their deception.
19. They are so
concerned about the immediate but are willing to trade the ultimate at any
given price.
20. They are
quick to ruining relationships that would have added value to them.
21. They are
good with playing the blame game; they are never at fault because they feel
they are always right.
22. They never
see the need to add value to other people so long as you are not related to
them.
23. When they
want to disapprove of your idea or suggestion, they pretend to speak on behalf
of everyone in disguise of speaking for themselves.
24. When it
comes to work, you will never see them but when it comes to reward, they are already
at the forefront and you are in trouble if you don’t reward them.
25. SCPs are so
concerned about their reputation and they are willing to protect it at all cost
irrespective if whose axes they grind and whose feelings they trample upon.
26. They are egoistic
in nature, so full of themselves that they find it absolutely difficult to
admit their fault even if they know they are wrong.
27. They are
quick to look down on other people; they feel they are better off whereas they don’t
want others to look down on them.
28. They are
not willing to sow or plant but are more eager to reap where they did not sow
only for them to destroy the harvest with their selfish nature.
29. SCPs by
default have been programmed to be consumers as they find it extremely
difficult to think about large scale production that will benefit a large
number of people. This they find very uncomfortable.
30. They are so
myopic in their thinking that all they think about is themselves.
31. SCPs do not
want be exposed. Therefore, they always want to hide under the shadows putting
up a face of self-righteousness in other not to be seen for who they really
are. As a result, write-ups like this really makes them very so uncomfortable.
This is an eye opener in spotting
out and eliminating people with these traits from your life, relationships and
business.
Your maturity is principally measured
by how selfless you are. If all you think about is yourself and what you can
get, then irrespective of your age you are still classified as a child.
Therefore, if by any reason you
possess these horrible traits either as a man or a woman in whichever capacity
you find yourself, it is time to deal with them, it is time to turn a turn a
new leaf, it is time to experience a 360 degree turn around.
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